Sometimes, even basic communication can be a challenge for them.
Eggers suggested that she list a restaurant where someone could find her, or a specific cocktail at a bar, as a better conversation starter. If you list consuming cocktails as an activity but then say in response to "what's your ideal Friday night?Be honest with what is a cliché (and try to avoid them). Make your self-summary feel like the first line of a novel."Recognize when you're repeating something that you've heard," said Dan, one of the attendees, and then try to eliminate it from your profile. It needs to be the "hook." The "about" section is where you can sound most generic, Eggers told Dan, so make sure you hook people in like you would in a book.It just means their strengths are somewhere outside of written intercommunication.
Unfortunately, our written communication is often the first (and possibly only) impression we get to make, so if we don’t know how to effectively communicate on the page or screen, we lose valuable opportunity.
" that you actually prefer Saturday mornings, you may be sending mixed signals, as Eggers pointed out to one person.