Their argument is overly obvious: that it’s too easy to find a new (sex) partner, and therefore nobody settles down anymore, swiping the moment something goes wrong in a relationship. Your options were: meet through friends (and our circle of friends tends to dwindle as we get older, so that stops working by one’s mid-20s); meet at a bar (kind of like meeting on Tinder except when a guy comes up to you and says something creepy, you still have to engage instead of just putting your phone down); meet at Whole Foods (which never happens); and so on.But this lament ignores two important elements: what dating was like before online dating, and what online dating is like now. These options were so terrible that we all endured months-long “droughts” in which eligible single people dated no one and instead watched VHS tapes and ate popcorn every Saturday night.Culture delivered to your inbox The author, Nancy Jo Sales, is missing the point.So are most people when they vent about Tinder and how it has ruined dating/love/monogamy.We talked over the next few weeks and decided on a crazy first date. I realize that one person’s experience doesn’t sum up anything, that even the most colorful anecdotes can’t really rebuff the myth that has crept into the American consciousness: that Tinder—that app wherein users swipe right to choose (or swipe left to reject) potential mates—is a wretched realm for shallow sex addicts, ruining not just monogamy but dating itself.This argument reared its head again of late in a piece in s September issue, “Tinder and the Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse.” Most of the story is based on man-on-the-street-style interviews that presume most people use Tinder for sex and then confirm most people use Tinder for sex via interviews with people who use Tinder for sex.
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